Sapper Redux said:AGC said:Sapper Redux said:AGC said:Sapper Redux said:Quo Vadis? said:BonfireNerd04 said:
I am a person who admires Judaism, but too lazy to convert.
What does that mean?
Converting to Judaism is a process that takes years of intense study supervised by a rabbi who agrees to support the person.
"Intense" is relative to the rabbi, and reform (as you know) has all types of rabbis.
Your hatred of Reform Judaism is repeatedly noted.
I have a relative that converted. I've got some insight you might not appreciate but nonetheless is true.
Cool. You've got one relative. There aren't very many people that convert to Judaism and of those, very few do conversions that don't meet a minimum standard. If they don't, those conversions are likely to not be recognized by anyone outside of that one synagogue. That goes for Reform congregations, Conservative, and certainly Orthodox. If they didn't go through study, have a formal Mikvah ceremony, a formal Beit Din of 3 rabbis, a Brit Milah or hatafat dam brit (if male), they won't be recognized as properly converted.
I'm well aware, and I know what they've gone through. They recommended some books to me along the way too. Some here in this thread and forum might find it useful, it would probably reshape some of the responses:
https://www.amazon.com/Words-That-Hurt-Heal-Revised/dp/0062896377