Back to the OP, I appreciate those who care for old cemeteries. For the respect, for the history, for the geneology.
I have a several times great grandfather who built wagons, including for the Patriot cause in the Revolution. He later moved to a small town in East Tennessee, died, and was buried there. A small creek near his burial site bears the family name.
But the grave long since was lost, perhaps simply farmed over. The stone was dumped under a nearby tree, and some other descendants took it home for safekeeping.
Logically, I know his soul is long gone, and it really doesn't matter.
But emotionally, it just feels disrespectful.