Dr. Teeth said:
A movie hasn't hit me like this since Manchester by the Sea.
Never been a Lady Gaga fan, and don't plan to start listening to her pop stuff, but holy **** what a voice. So powerful and beautiful.
Very impressed by Bradley Cooper's direction and acting. I noticed the group meeting leader was one of his cast mates from Alias. He was already A-list, but I think this movie will propel him even higher.
Sam Elliott's character resonated with me due to some current family issues.
Major Spoilers: As someone who has dealt personally with depression and suicidal thinking and has survived one attempt, this movie hit me hard. This movie, more than any other I've ever seen, nearly exactly explains how I felt that night. That belief that you are holding someone back, that they could never be truly happy by your side, and that they would be better off without you... even if it's not true, but in your head it's a 100% fact. You just feel like you'd be doing everyone a favor by relieving them of the burden of you. Very, very difficult for me to watch, and I nearly walked out after Ally's manager spoke to Jack and I realized what was about to happen and why.
Thank you for sharing this, Dr. Teeth. As someone that has lost a close friend to this before (and more if you count how many friends did very stupid things on motorcycles that had to evolve from some deeper-seeded problems), it was the hardest part of the movie for me. Like another poster indicated, I knew once the manager showed his ass that it was going to happen but just hoped I was wrong.
I do not mean to cause offense, but I have to agree with the poster who talked about there being a selfish angle to the act and, for that reason, no matter how difficult things might get in my life, I do not believe I could ever make such a choice. That said, everyone is working from their own entirely different deck of cards with regard to upbringing, life experiences, support, family, friends, etc. so trying to understand how or why someone else cobbles all of that into any given viewpoint is difficult, at best.
I think the movie was supposed to make you feel like he didn't feel he could talk to his support system about this. Today everyone has tons of "friends" thanks to the Facebook designation but how many of those are people we really connect with or would trust our innermost feelings to? His friend Chappelle was in such a good family place that he probably felt like he couldn't go to him, his brother had always mothered him and he didn't feel that sort of relationship with him and how could he feel he would hear Allie's true feelings?
I do like that the scene brings the issue of mental and emotional well-being to more mainstream discussion and, selfishly, I love that my 18-year old daughter was so affected by the scene. It opened up an opportunity for me to talk to her about my friend and things she has been lucky enough to never experience first-hand and reminded me again how empathy is one of her best qualities.