Duckhook said:
Came here to read some reviews of the show. Man, was not expecting it to go off the rails like it did here.
Just finished it tonight. Overall, I found it worth the watch. Episode 2 was a little over the top I thought.
I'm not gonna lie. As the father of 2 (now grown) boys, I had tears in my eyes in that very last scene. The anguish that dad was feeling. I'm so glad my kids were mostly out of their teen years when the social media boom began.
So originally, As a father myself, I thought the point of the show was to put the viewer through the emotions that the parents were going through, and I thought it was clever. I can't think of any show that has done that. The closest I can think of was a documentary that focused on the mother of Dylan Klebold. But that was after the fact. That wasn't showing the parents realizing what their son had done in real time.
Like the father, I assumed at first that he had to be innocent. Even after they showed the video, I was making excuses in my mind like "maybe somebody else was wearing similar clothing!", "can you see his FACE in that video?", and "did he STAB her there? Or was that just him punching?" Even after he said the thing about having a knife in episode 3, I was thinking maybe his friend (that jumped out of the window) took the knife and killed her. Like the dad, it wasn't until the last episode that I accepted the reality.
The only thing I think I would have done differently as a parent in episode 4 was to tell my son to immediately stop talking on the phone and to arrange a meeting with him and their lawyer. And in that meeting I would ask him, "did you really do it?" But clearly the show didn't have time for any of that. I came away thinking the show did a good job.
Then I read about how the "real point" according to the producers was "toxic masculinity" and all of that nonsense. Now I realize that they totally failed in their goal. That their attempts to get the point across didn't work at all. That the show was only good from my previous perspective by complete accident. The show has completely fallen in my view of it. The only other show that has done that based on producer comments outside the show is the Sopranos. I thought the ending was meh, but fine. Then I heard Chase "explain" it, and it made me realize he had no actual plan there. It took that show from #1 at the time (prior to me watching other shows that are better) to way down my personal rankings.