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No, that is not my opinion. As I think I previously stated, not all of the aspects of Moses dorm life were negative. A great majority of the things you mentioned are very positive and demonstrate positive feelings towards The University.
Teaching your underclassmen to follow in a negative way, however, is not loyal. Teaching them poor manners and bad habits does not reflect on our school in a positive light. Every university has the college mentality, sure, but boldly chanting "we rape women, etc" does not represent The University in a way that needs to be represented. When you have the lowest GPA on campus continuously, and are proud of it--that is not loyal to The University. Being loyal involves doing your best to preserve and show respect, and do your best for yourself and for your school--to achieve great, to learn, and to apply your knowledge. You just don't **** where you sleep. And that's the reputation that Moses Hall, Red Ass B@stards, has gained for themselves by all of the extreme "fun" that those kids have.
Great, your dorm builds its own bonfire every year. I understand first hand what the benefits of hard work with your buddies and your new friends for life can give you. It still doesn't give you the right to destroy one of the historical buildings on campus, to have to "f!ck you, I'm from Moses (or any dorm, for that matter)" mentality.
I'm not questioning Ben's loyalty, personally. I know that he's the kind of guy to give someone $20 when he can barely afford it, because he knows that his buddy really needs it to eat. I know the caliber of a kind of guy--but "that dorm" that he's so proud of--not so much.
I can see your point on many things, and thank you for responding with thought and care, rather than with ad hominim attacks.
As I have also stated, Moses had many negative aspects. Most of these negative aspects were the more visible aspects, but to simply pigeonhole a dorm with very little knowledge on the subject is pretty closeminded, and that was pretty much my main point throughout my posts. Alot of people have spouted off about something they truly have minimal understanding of the dorm dynamic that we had.
I lived there for three years and never once locked my door. That's true of the majority of the residents there. We never had to worry about thieves because they weren't tolerated. All the upperclassmen had an open-door policy, which made us much more accessible for advice or just to hang out.
As for lowest dorm GPA being a valid point, I'd like to point out that the only person responsible for his/her GPA is that individual. It's not up to the profs, it's not up to the dorms, it's not up to the parents. It's up to the individual students. Some of the highest GPAs I've run across from graduates come from the Northside dorms, and from guys that were involved in those dorms. My buddy Bump graduated with a 3.7 or so in Civil Engineering. He was also the dorm Yellowpot in Fall '03, in which semester he pulled a 4.0 if I remember correctly. Not because he was from Moses, or that he built Bonfire, but because he accepted PERSONAL responsibility for his grades. This is college, not high school. No one else is in charge of your grades, so why is dorm GPA even looked at? It's not the dorm's fault, it's either lack of study or lack of time management on each student's part.
And as for an "F you, I'm from _____" mentality, trust me, ours wasn't the only dorm, let alone student group that was like that. Lord knows almost every Corps outfit I ran into during my short stay on the Quad had that mentality. Lord knows K2, H1 and the Cav sure as all hell did. It's a naturally competitive us-versus-them mentality that draws people closer together within their respective communities. Is it always positive? No. But it does serve the purpose of closely tying people together. At the same time, you can ask anyone from our "rival" dorms that it's generally a friendly rivalry, and rarely escalates beyond simply yelling at each other.
Lastly, I'd like to point out that the temperament of the current residents of the dorm, along with their destructive tendencies have mellowed _drastically_ compared to where things stood in Spring '03 when I moved in there. The only significant fact regarding write-ups and such are that we used to have RAs that would calm us down and talk to us if we were in a screaming argument or being too rowdy late at night rather than write people up. They expected us to act like adults, and actually treated us like adults when we stepped mildly out of line. They used to pull us aside and actually get to the bottom of what was going on rather than just write up everyone and let SCRS sort it out. Showed a lot more maturity and trust on their part, and in turn we trusted them alot more to the point where we'd actually talk to them for advice BEFORE things got horribly out of hand.
I've been in the Corps, I lived in Crocker for eight weeks after leaving the Corps, I lived offcampus when I came back to A&M in Fall of '03 , then moved into Moses in Spring of '03. I've seen every type of living situation there is in college, even to the point of having been homeless more than once. And I can honestly say the sense of community, belonging, and Aggie Spirit was by far the best in Moses, even taking the bad with the good.