Cromagnum said:
So Tesla waited a month from my interview with the 2nd round interview with the hiring manager to send me an auto rejection on new years day. And to further **** on the New Year, it looks like everyone else set their systems to send all the auto-rejections today. My inbox is s dumpster fire with it today.
Here's to to 2+ more months unemployed while I start completely over.
I can commiserate. This is the worst I've ever seen the job market and hiring process in my life. I'm 100% convinced that in an effort to remove bias, HR has ensured many qualified individuals can't even get interviews. Corporate HR, AI and technology has completely F'ed the system.
And to drive the nail home, corporate HR has all but ensured current employees can get resumes of people they know can do the job in front of hiring managers. Everything has to go through the hiring portal only to eliminate unfair hiring. Which wouldn't matter, except that means technology systems and HR reps that have no understanding of the certifications, terminology, or the role itself are now completely in control of deciding what resumes are seen by people that do. And essentially nullifies our reputation, networking and the relationships we spent a career building. All while HR reps keep saying that's not the case.
I've gotten to the final home stretch of being hired a couple of times now in the last 12-18 months only to watch something that has nothing to do with me and I have no control over kill the deal. It's hard to admit, but this has been sole crushing and hard on my mental health. Thankfully, while my job really sucks I still mostly get paid on time and sometimes even the right amount.
I actually have a little hope at the moment. I circled back through my network and reached out to everyone again for only God knows the Nth time. Hat in hand I essentially begged for help. One of my good connections made some call on my behalf. I've had conversations with 3 different directors or managing directors now at her firm regarding my experience filling a gap they have. Now I have another waiting game as they work to build a business case to get permission to hire me in the middle of a hiring freeze at their firm. My guess is it will take until Q2, if it happens. But they've all said the right things to make me believe they want to hire me and are willing to run the gauntlet to try and make it happen. Just back to waiting to see if it actually happens and keep looking for jobs otherwise and applying.
All I can say is do whatever you need to in order to keep your head right and your search moving forward. That's sometimes meant I had to open up and talk through my frustrations with my wife and vent even though I'm the normal dumbass type A male who doesn't like to be vulnerable. That's sometimes meant stepping away from the search for a week or two even though it gave me anxiety to do so just to catch my breath and rebuild the conviction to get back into the search.
Good luck!