dermdoc said:

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So supposedly they have found Mary Grace's body. Which is good for closure. Thank y'all so much.

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So sorry sir. Continued prayers for you, the families and the first responders.

I'm so sorry.

dermdoc said:

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So supposedly they have found Mary Grace's body. Which is good for closure. Thank y'all so much.

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Yes good for closure but still awful news. So sorry for your family's loss. Very happy she has been recovered.

I'm so sorry Derm. We will continue to pray for you and your family.

Hey all. When I first started tracking names, I was hoping beyond hope that I would be starting a list of children who were found safe versus those who had not. I am not directly related to any of these girls, but I am an school based psychologist and my primary age group is Kindergarten through 2nd grade and I just love, love second graders. I do not know any of these girls but my colleagues have likely worked in schools these girls attended. I was just absolutely struck by the thought of any of my girls or their families being in this situation and I could not pull myself away from the despair of the story looking for any hope.

Given how this has turned out, I am going to make a post of the information I gathered, but I have decided to edit all my previous posts and remove the children's last names. It just does not seem necessary anymore to have their complete info out there and there is no need for reporters, etc to google names and have this thread come up based on the kids names. Of course their names are out there but this can be one less place.

However, since I also am striving towards accurate information, I am going to make this update knowing that some people are still confused and trying to figure out their connections to these little girls who have touched so many lives.

This is what I knows as of (last edit July 14 10am CT). Both the Twins and Bubble Inn girls appear to have just finished 2nd grade and going to 3th grade in the fall. Both counselors were due to head off to college in the fall.

Recovered:
Lila (Bubble Inn)
Janie (Bubble Inn)
Sarah (Bubble Inn)
Eloise (Bubble Inn)
Renee (Bubble Inn)
Anna Margaret (Bubble Inn)
Lainey (Bubble Inn)
Linnie (Bubble Inn)
Wynne (Bubble Inn)
Mary (Bubble Inn)
Molly (Bubble Inn)
Chloe (Bubble Inn counselor)
Mary Grace (Twins 1)
Hanna (Twins 1)
Mary Kathryn (likely from Twins)
Lucy (likely from Twins)
Rebecca (Twins 2)
Hadley (Twins 2)
Blakely (Twins 1)
Greta (Jumble House)
Katherine (Bubble Inn counselor)
Abby (Bubble Inn)
Ellen (Bubble Inn)
Kellyanne (Twins 1)
Margaret (Twins 2)


Missing/unconfirmed:
Virginia (Twins 2)
Cile (Twins 2)

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This accurately adds up to the 27 lost figure quoted by Camp Mystic, and if that figure is accurate, this is a complete list of the girls.

My thoughts are with these beautiful beautiful girls and their families.

I'm so very sorry. May the Lord wrap you and the rest of the family in love and the comfort only he can give.

Derm, so sorry for your loss. I know you are taking solace in the closure you mentioned. May God's grace be with you and your whole family.

Jeremiah-

Thank you for sharing. I did not come from a family that did a lot of summer camps, but I was commenting to my wife about the memories a lot of folks have shared here. It is evident a lot of character, faith, values, memories and relationships have been forged on the Guadalupe - this is true in the past as it is very much today.

Thank you and God Bless

Mary Grace is in Paradise. There could be no better place. For her family and loved ones, I pray for peace and comfort that surpasses all understanding.

dermdoc said:

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So supposedly they have found Mary Grace's body. Which is good for closure. Thank y'all so much.

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My sincerest condolences, Ed. As they have been for the last few days, yall will continue to be in my thoughts and prayers.

The entire time I've been following this thread, all I could think about was this scene.

Dermdoc,

I am so sorry for your loss and just gutted by the whole thought of what you and your family have endured. I came across this instagram account the other day and being a baseball fan, I hope it resonates with you. The guy takes photos of players at all levels rounding third and coming into home after hitting walkoff home runs, because he feels like the images represent what it will feel like to enter heaven. I hope that Jesus and all of the angels are waiting there at home to welcome Mary Grace across the plate.

https://instagr.am/p/DEE_2SWxcUy

I had been praying that you would have posted something different.

Prayers of peace and healing for Mary Grace's parents, brother, entire family, and you.

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For those that know people that lost someone, one thing you can do right now is set a calendar reminder for some point in the future to check in on them and tell them you love them. Maybe in August give them a call or text. In September, write them a quick note. In July next year as we approach the 1y mark, write them a letter or give them a call.

Right now, they are likely extremely overwhelmed with everything. But the people around them and checking in on them will dissipate as time goes on. That's when it is time to check in again, because there can be such a big crash as the rest of the world starts to go on with their lives, and they still feel the emptiness of loss.

We are coming up on 5 years since my father died, and it was my Aggie family that stepped up (especially Trouble) more than even my own family or my church. The support I received from other Ags really affected me in ways I still can't adequately express my gratitude for.

Somewhere along the way a few months after my dad died, someone shared this with me and it really did help me understand my own grief.



And remember that every year when the rest of the country is celebrating the 4th with cookouts and fireworks, their grief will be raw all over. Try to think of a way to support them. Now's a good time to set a reminder, because they will need that call or text or letter really bad in a few weeks or months and every 4th of July.

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Thank you for posting...This is so spot on. Lost our nephew to leukemia 3 years ago. And after the initial loss, there is so much support, but the world moves on. The milestones become so key....first holiday without them, a birthday, and of course the anniversary date.

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This is wonderful advice. We lost our 8 year old daughter over 20 years ago, and I agree with all of this.

I'd like to offer some additional suggestions for anyone who is already friends with a family that is grieving a child.

Long term support parent support: The principal at our daughter's elementary school sent a birthday card every year on our sweet girl's birthday. She let us know our daughter continued to be thought of and prayed for as the years passed. I can't tell you what it meant to get that card every year. Consider putting that birthday on your calendar and reaching out.

Another kindness that meant a lot to us was friends and family that journaled about a favorite memory. You'll never forget your child, but stories help preserve little details to enjoy in the years to come.

Long term sibling support: Our grief counselor taught us that kids grieve very differently than adults. They are more in the moment. They aren't afraid to feel joy when they're joyful and be sad when they're sad. If you host a child that lost a sibling, don't be surprised if that kiddo's emotions cycle pretty fast between happy and sad. On the surface it may not seem to have anything to do with their loss. It might anyway. There's only so much frustration a body can take.

Also, as they get older and hit different stages of development they will start to understand the permanence of death in a new way. When that happens grief hits them afresh. In some ways they go back to square one trying to process the loss. It takes a lot of their emotional bandwidth. They might be developmentally/emotionally behind other kids for quite a long time. Their parents may feel like they're failing. Compassion for siblings is a long term commitment throughout their adolescence.

I get a little nervous about sharing online. Hopefully, this doesn't come across as being about us. Our hearts are breaking for these families. I hope this might be helpful to friends/family as they walk with those that are grieving.

God bless and keep them in his arms.

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Thank you for sharing this.

So very sorry for your family's loss Derm. May God's peace wrap you in comfort as you grieve.

So very sorry for you all. You have been and will continue to be in my prayers. Mary Grace is safe, dry, and comforted now in the presence of the Lord.

dermdoc said:

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So supposedly they have found Mary Grace's body. Which is good for closure. Thank y'all so much.

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I am so sorry. I'd been praying so hard for a miracle. Your family will remain in my prayers.

dermdoc said:

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So supposedly they have found Mary Grace's body. Which is good for closure. Thank y'all so much.

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Eternal rest grant unto her, O Lord, and let perpetual light shine upon her. May she rest in peace. Amen

BaileyDane said:

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This is wonderful advice. We lost our 8 year old daughter over 20 years ago, and I agree with all of this.

I'd like to offer some additional suggestions for anyone who is already friends with a family that is grieving a child.

Long term support parent support: The principal at our daughter's elementary school sent a birthday card every year on our sweet girl's birthday. She let us know our daughter continued to be thought of and prayed for as the years passed. I can't tell you what it meant to get that card every year. Consider putting that birthday on your calendar and reaching out.

Another kindness that meant a lot to us was friends and family that journaled about a favorite memory. You'll never forget your child, but stories help preserve little details to enjoy in the years to come.

Long term sibling support: Our grief counselor taught us that kids grieve very differently than adults. They are more in the moment. They aren't afraid to feel joy when they're joyful and be sad when they're sad. If you host a child that lost a sibling, don't be surprised if that kiddo's emotions cycle pretty fast between happy and sad. On the surface it may not seem to have anything to do with their loss. It might anyway. There's only so much frustration a body can take.

Also, as they get older and hit different stages of development they will start to understand the permanence of death in a new way. When that happens grief hits them afresh. In some ways they go back to square one trying to process the loss. It takes a lot of their emotional bandwidth. They might be developmentally/emotionally behind other kids for quite a long time. Their parents may feel like they're failing. Compassion for siblings is a long term commitment throughout their adolescence.

I get a little nervous about sharing online. Hopefully, this doesn't come across as being about us. Our hearts are breaking for these families. I hope this might be helpful to friends/family as they walk with those that are grieving.

God bless and keep them in his arms.

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Thank you for adding additional information. Information like this and the FB post I shared go a long way for those of us that have no experience or any idea what we can do.

GS,
How did you know the Wilson family? They were well-loved in Kingwood.

So incredibly sorry for your family's loss. I am relieved that she has been found and that the added weight of uncertainty has been lifted. Please know there are so many that share in your grief, and this community is here for you and your family. God bless.

Derm, Hugs sir. You have been a beacon to us all for how you have handled this adversity. The number of individuals who are closer to the Lord because of your example is a testimony for all who have been following this thread.

Doc...my heart is genuinely broken for your family and for all of the families affected by this tragedy. The tears have, once again, begun.

Thank you, and praise God our Father, for being steadfast as you have exhibited your faith. Indeed, you have been a "light on the hill" even in the darkest days.

May the God of comfort bring you peace in the midst of the storm.

dermdoc said:

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So supposedly they have found Mary Grace's body. Which is good for closure. Thank y'all so much.

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Our prayers are with your entire extended family. Hard news to receive but necessary to move forward.

Doc,

My heart aches for you and all the other families affected by this devastating event. Your steadfast Faith is a testament to your love for the Lord. We continue to pray for you and all of those who suffered unimaginable loss.

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Dermdoc,

I am so sorry for your loss and just gutted by the whole thought of what you and your family have endured. I came across this instagram account the other day and being a baseball fan, I hope it resonates with you. The guy takes photos of players at all levels rounding third and coming into home after hitting walkoff home runs, because he feels like the images represent what it will feel like to enter heaven. I hope that Jesus and all of the angels are waiting there at home to welcome Mary Grace across the plate.

https://instagr.am/p/DEE_2SWxcUy

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Thank you

dermdoc said:

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So supposedly they have found Mary Grace's body. Which is good for closure. Thank y'all so much.

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May her family find peace now that she can be laid to rest.

I also was just struck with the thought of Mary Grace's dear camp counselors, whoever they may be. The young women tasked with caring for her for this week. Oh these dear young ladies. I hope they find peace and know that they did absolutely everything in their power to have saved these girls. May they not lose the compassion and love in their hearts that led them to being counselors this summer.

So, so sorry. Prayers for peace for you and all who are grieving.

Sorry Derm

Derm…our deepest condolences for your loss! We will continue to pray for all of you!! You are a man of such steadfast faith and have been a great example for so many! I pray that the good Lord continues to give you and your family strength, comfort and peace during this time!! (And prayers for all who have been affected by this heartbreaking tragedy).

So sorry to hear this news Derm. Praying for you and your family

Dermdoc,

I am so sorry for your loss. Our continued prayers for you and your family.

Your brother in Christ,
Trestamu

I can tell you your info isn't up to date. I'm not saying who or where, but I think at this point there really isn't any value in trying to list those confirmed vs unconfirmed that have been found. Some families are choosing to privately grieve.

I've never seen this, T, but it is such good information to pass along, so thank you! I wish I had this to show people the last 11 years after losing Otto..... It's SO true.