cgh1999 said:jja79 said:
I spent a lot of years lending money for banks. Until the day I retired I was astounded at how many people with good incomes had less than expected and debt up to their eyeballs. People 50+ years old making $200K, $400K, $800K and they had less than $100K in current and retirement funds. Some had more than one $1K+ car payment. I had a dentist client that lived in Memorial that was more than 70 years old who owed more than $500K on a house he bought 50 years ago. He kept taking cash out to pay credit cards.
Had a great one last week. Doctor with a $4MM house and $3.6MM mortgage. $3MM beach house with $2.8MM in debt and listed at $2.8 for the last 6 months. Less than $300k liquidity. Over $1MM in merchant cash advance loans in the 70% interest range.
Looks (and acts) rich, but is perilously close to bankruptcy.
I took a hit in my retirement account, but in the long run my divorce helped my financials tremendously. Sounds like this doc remarried my ex...
Good lord, I could not sleep at night with those financials.
I just freaked out buying a $50k Tesla. I could have paid cash, but they gave me 0% interest, so I'll just put the money in MM or stocks or whatever. No debt on my diesel truck and I can unload my paid-for Porsche Boxster for probably $15-$20k. I make too much for the $7,500 EV tax credit (I know, boo hoo). That's the kind of B.S. that I stress over.