How did/will you make your decision to retire? SIAP

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jja79 said:

I spent a lot of years lending money for banks. Until the day I retired I was astounded at how many people with good incomes had less than expected and debt up to their eyeballs. People 50+ years old making $200K, $400K, $800K and they had less than $100K in current and retirement funds. Some had more than one $1K+ car payment. I had a dentist client that lived in Memorial that was more than 70 years old who owed more than $500K on a house he bought 50 years ago. He kept taking cash out to pay credit cards.

Had a great one last week. Doctor with a $4MM house and $3.6MM mortgage. $3MM beach house with $2.8MM in debt and listed at $2.8 for the last 6 months. Less than $300k liquidity. Over $1MM in merchant cash advance loans in the 70% interest range.

Looks (and acts) rich, but is perilously close to bankruptcy.

I took a hit in my retirement account, but in the long run my divorce helped my financials tremendously. Sounds like this doc remarried my ex...

Good lord, I could not sleep at night with those financials.

I just freaked out buying a $50k Tesla. I could have paid cash, but they gave me 0% interest, so I'll just put the money in MM or stocks or whatever. No debt on my diesel truck and I can unload my paid-for Porsche Boxster for probably $15-$20k. I make too much for the $7,500 EV tax credit (I know, boo hoo). That's the kind of B.S. that I stress over.
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Teams meeting with my boss this afternoon to go over a few final logistics then ship him my laptop and phone.

On to whatever is next !!
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100% liberated now right?
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Yes sir, had my Teams meeting at 1:00 and by 2:00 I had shipped my stuff. New golf clubs arrive in about a week!
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The last two weeks of work and the first two weeks of retirement are rough. Pace yourself…d8)
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AgOutsideAustin said:

Teams meeting with my boss this afternoon to go over a few final logistics then ship him my laptop and phone.

On to whatever is next !!

One thing I learned and liked from Reddit FIRE community, once someone retires it's considered polite to tell them…

Go **** Yourself!
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Regarding saving vs spending, when I was in college, someone told me about Christian Financial Concepts [CFC], which was a ministry of Larry Burkett. It really impacted me, and I put into place most of his suggestions.

I never made a lot of money until the last 3 years or so, but I can live extremely frugally and don't really mind it. I'm still a small money Ag, but I'm land rich here in the entrapment errr Enchantment.

So I'll be taking Social Security in OCT, getting the first check in NOV.

Anyway, CFC meant a lot to me, and was a life changer, I don't have any debt, I only owe myself since I took a loan out of my own TSP and will be paying it back to myself, so doesn't really count.
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herewegoagain said:

I'm no hero. I had 5M at age 40 and was walking away from a high liklihood of having 8-10M at age 43-45. But the cost just wasn't there for me. I have an amazing life. More than I could ever need already. And I'll never get these years with my kiddos back. No matter how much money i try to throw at it later.


I may find myself in a similar predicament. Do you mind sharing more details?

Industry / job type, annual spend in retirement, kids ages when you retired, how long have you been retired, how do you fill your time, etc
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You have an email or phone number I can reach out to you on?
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I've enjoyed everyone's discussion here, thank you
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Can you DM or post your preferred method?

I'll keep an eye on the thread so you can delete quickly.
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Got it
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Does anyone have:

1. Experience with exchange funds for stock? I am heavily weighted in my company's stock and have looked at a few approaches including an exchange fund and options trading with lose harvesting as potential approaches to diversify and reduce my tax burden.

2. Anyone suggest a YouTube channel for options trading as an income strategy? Again, I'm heavily weighted in my company's' stock and I'm considering options as 1 approach to income.

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htxag09 said:

I feel like this debate brings out a lot of extremes.....

It's either the multimillionaire who drives a 5 year old Camry or the multimillionaire who has $100K saved for retirement because he/she blows everything.

Fact is there are a lot in the middle also. Obviously don't get into the deep financials of every person I talk to but I'd guess that 95%+ of the multimillionaires I know drive a Range Rover or a $90K truck but have enough saved for retirement they'll never have to worry about it. Not that they'd ever have to worry about it anyways because they hold positions at companies that have very generous retirement benefits.

ETA: I know 5 couples that are multimillionaires very well and all of them are in this category.

if my parents end up leaving me the 500K they claim they are going to then I am a multimillionaire and I drive a 2022 BMW Gran Coupe- I paid $40,000 for it used and only owe another $22,000.

rent a 3 bedroom condo. no HOA fees.
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permabull said:

I made an example plan just now in income lab to show you guys many of you can probably retire much earlier than you thought.

I made an example couple 58F and 60M assuming they retire now and paid into social security while working. I chose a pretty conservative setting as well and it shows them starting out with a 6.76% withdrawal rate on their portfolio as being safe



It also shows the upper and lower guard rails for when they can increase spending and when they might need to cut back and by how much. The reason they can start so high is because eventually social security will kick in an cover a chunk of their expenses so its okay to spend more early on.


You can see the yellow is the so called "hatchet" as your portfolio won't have to do all the heavy lifting forever. You can test this plan throughout history and see how bad it would have gotten. So if this plan was run by someone who was unlucky and retired right into the great depression how would it have worked out?



As you can see they did have to make a spending cut in this extreme scenario, but they eventually recovered and never ran out of money. In this plan the spending went from $67600 a year to $58200, both well above starting at 4% of their initial million portfolio.


There is a TexAgs sponsor who uses this same software to project retirement spending who has a lot more experience than I do with it:

https://texags.com/forums/57/topics/3556370

I honestly think a lot of you sound way closer to retirement than you think you are and if you run a plan with this software you will see just how close you might be. I would highly recommend reaching out to Jeff and having an analysis like this run for your personal situation.
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i live in a retirement community with 2,800 homes so there are a lot of us. I would describe it as very much middle class. Of the group of people in my good friend group (20 or so guys that play golf, go to baseball and hockey, lake, mountains, etc) took an unscientific poll the last few days. I think 1 or maybe 2 have $1MM or more. Some like me retired within the last 18 months but some have been retired 5, 10 and one 14 years. I asked a these questions.

1. Do you have more or less than you retired with. All but one said more.
2. Are you able to do the majority of things you want to with your current finances? One said no, a few said they have to make some choices but most said yes.
3. Do you wish you had worked longer to save more money? Only one yes. The guy that said yes is a great guy but he's a financial moron. I took him to the airport this morning for his trip to his 31 year old son's wedding. He's paying for the wedding which no one can believe.

This week we've played golf 3 times, gone to an MLB game and have 2 more tee times for the week. Last week some of us did a mountain trip to enjoy some 70 degree weather.

Only the moron said he would trade time for more money. At least to these people time is the most important commodity we have.
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Thanks for that. Exactly the kind of stuff I was wanting to hear about with peoples' decisions.

Retirement continues to pervade my thoughts. Right now, I am strongly thinking that I will set 3 years from business sale as my retirement date, but if I get bored I can likely do part time work while I am not out having fun otherwise. And I am definitely trying to keep my health up so I can enjoy the "go-go years" of retirement before they turn into "slow-go" then "no-go" years. And I am sprinkling in fun stuff while I am still working in case my health goals don't go as I plan.

Keep it in the short grass.
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jja79 said:

i live in a retirement community with 2,800 homes so there are a lot of us. I would describe it as very much middle class. Of the group of people in my good friend group (20 or so guys that play golf, go to baseball and hockey, lake, mountains, etc) took an unscientific poll the last few days. I think 1 or maybe 2 have $1MM or more. Some like me retired within the last 18 months but some have been retired 5, 10 and one 14 years. I asked a these questions.

1. Do you have more or less than you retired with. All but one said more.
2. Are you able to do the majority of things you want to with your current finances? One said no, a few said they have to make some choices but most said yes.
3. Do you wish you had worked longer to save more money? Only one yes. The guy that said yes is a great guy but he's a financial moron. I took him to the airport this morning for his trip to his 31 year old son's wedding. He's paying for the wedding which no one can believe.

This week we've played golf 3 times, gone to an MLB game and have 2 more tee times for the week. Last week some of us did a mountain trip to enjoy some 70 degree weather.

Only the moron said he would trade time for more money. At least to these people time is the most important commodity we have.

Thats awesome! Just curious, how many have pensions? Seems like retirement might be a bit tight with less than a million unless theres a pension involved.

I am thankful my mom worked her entire career for the government, because she is able to live off her pension + social security. Otherwise, there's no way shed have enough to retire.
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also curious if those home are owned/rented and at what value/costs
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Texag5324 said:

jja79 said:

i live in a retirement community with 2,800 homes so there are a lot of us. I would describe it as very much middle class. Of the group of people in my good friend group (20 or so guys that play golf, go to baseball and hockey, lake, mountains, etc) took an unscientific poll the last few days. I think 1 or maybe 2 have $1MM or more. Some like me retired within the last 18 months but some have been retired 5, 10 and one 14 years. I asked a these questions.

1. Do you have more or less than you retired with. All but one said more.
2. Are you able to do the majority of things you want to with your current finances? One said no, a few said they have to make some choices but most said yes.
3. Do you wish you had worked longer to save more money? Only one yes. The guy that said yes is a great guy but he's a financial moron. I took him to the airport this morning for his trip to his 31 year old son's wedding. He's paying for the wedding which no one can believe.

This week we've played golf 3 times, gone to an MLB game and have 2 more tee times for the week. Last week some of us did a mountain trip to enjoy some 70 degree weather.

Only the moron said he would trade time for more money. At least to these people time is the most important commodity we have.

Thats awesome! Just curious, how many have pensions? Seems like retirement might be a bit tight with less than a million unless theres a pension involved.

I am thankful my mom worked her entire career for the government, because she is able to live off her pension + social security. Otherwise, there's no way shed have enough to retire.


Two pensions here. My wife with Chevron and mine with TRS. Took my wife's in a lump sum. Taking mine in a monthly.
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Retired Principal said:

Texag5324 said:

jja79 said:

i live in a retirement community with 2,800 homes so there are a lot of us. I would describe it as very much middle class. Of the group of people in my good friend group (20 or so guys that play golf, go to baseball and hockey, lake, mountains, etc) took an unscientific poll the last few days. I think 1 or maybe 2 have $1MM or more. Some like me retired within the last 18 months but some have been retired 5, 10 and one 14 years. I asked a these questions.

1. Do you have more or less than you retired with. All but one said more.
2. Are you able to do the majority of things you want to with your current finances? One said no, a few said they have to make some choices but most said yes.
3. Do you wish you had worked longer to save more money? Only one yes. The guy that said yes is a great guy but he's a financial moron. I took him to the airport this morning for his trip to his 31 year old son's wedding. He's paying for the wedding which no one can believe.

This week we've played golf 3 times, gone to an MLB game and have 2 more tee times for the week. Last week some of us did a mountain trip to enjoy some 70 degree weather.

Only the moron said he would trade time for more money. At least to these people time is the most important commodity we have.

Thats awesome! Just curious, how many have pensions? Seems like retirement might be a bit tight with less than a million unless theres a pension involved.

I am thankful my mom worked her entire career for the government, because she is able to live off her pension + social security. Otherwise, there's no way shed have enough to retire.


Two pensions here. My wife with Chevron and mine with TRS. Took my wife's in a lump sum. Taking mine in a monthly.

My parents did this. AT&T and TRS. When he passed away from his monthly pension plan, she gets 75% of his pension now per the arrangement at retirement based on the options. She also gets his SS in full monthly (hers goes away) along with her monthly pension at TRS and any forced IRA payments. She brings home like $115k or something like that annually before the IRA stuff. Health insurance is through AT&T and is like $500 a year for the supplemental along with Medicare.

My dad made sure they were set up well and then became richer in retirement than they ever did working 9 to 5.

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Probably some do have pensions. The value range is $350K to $600K tops. Mostly owned.

I've listened to this guy Azul on his YouTube channel for quite a while and he's a proponent of the "youth of your senior years" thinking.

I've got one friend that's got stage 4 pancreatic cancer, another recently diagnosed with ALS and another going blind so two weeks ago he and his wife moved in with a daughter. All the money in the world isn't changing anything for any of these.

I'm not being critical of anyone grinding out these years for some more but I'm living in a sizable community of retirees with the vast majority having <$1MM and they're living the dream. It certainly shifted my thinking. Living in a community like this is probably different than living out in the wild if you know what I mean. Golf cart rides to happy hour in someone's driveway or patio aren't bad but they're pretty cheap.
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PDEMDHC said:

Retired Principal said:

Texag5324 said:

jja79 said:

i live in a retirement community with 2,800 homes so there are a lot of us. I would describe it as very much middle class. Of the group of people in my good friend group (20 or so guys that play golf, go to baseball and hockey, lake, mountains, etc) took an unscientific poll the last few days. I think 1 or maybe 2 have $1MM or more. Some like me retired within the last 18 months but some have been retired 5, 10 and one 14 years. I asked a these questions.

1. Do you have more or less than you retired with. All but one said more.
2. Are you able to do the majority of things you want to with your current finances? One said no, a few said they have to make some choices but most said yes.
3. Do you wish you had worked longer to save more money? Only one yes. The guy that said yes is a great guy but he's a financial moron. I took him to the airport this morning for his trip to his 31 year old son's wedding. He's paying for the wedding which no one can believe.

This week we've played golf 3 times, gone to an MLB game and have 2 more tee times for the week. Last week some of us did a mountain trip to enjoy some 70 degree weather.

Only the moron said he would trade time for more money. At least to these people time is the most important commodity we have.

Thats awesome! Just curious, how many have pensions? Seems like retirement might be a bit tight with less than a million unless theres a pension involved.

I am thankful my mom worked her entire career for the government, because she is able to live off her pension + social security. Otherwise, there's no way shed have enough to retire.


Two pensions here. My wife with Chevron and mine with TRS. Took my wife's in a lump sum. Taking mine in a monthly.

My parents did this. AT&T and TRS. When he passed away from his monthly pension plan, she gets 75% of his pension now per the arrangement at retirement based on the options. She also gets his SS in full monthly (hers goes away) along with her monthly pension at TRS and any forced IRA payments. She brings home like $115k or something like that annually before the IRA stuff. Health insurance is through AT&T and is like $500 a year for the supplemental along with Medicare.

My dad made sure they were set up well and then became richer in retirement than they ever did working 9 to 5.




We are set up, similarly. We are the benefactors of being disciplined savers and compounding. We also have been benefactors of some good timing. My wife retired in 2019 and we waited to take the lump sum. Lump some formula tied to interest rates - inverse relationship. Pandemic hit, and interest rates tumbled, so our lump sum increased in value, significantly. We also will be benefactors of the Social Security Fairness Act. I have enough quarters of SS, so I can receive SS and TRS without any offset. We are waiting a few more years to take SS.
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jja79 said:

i live in a retirement community with 2,800 homes so there are a lot of us. I would describe it as very much middle class. Of the group of people in my good friend group (20 or so guys that play golf, go to baseball and hockey, lake, mountains, etc) took an unscientific poll the last few days. I think 1 or maybe 2 have $1MM or more. Some like me retired within the last 18 months but some have been retired 5, 10 and one 14 years. I asked a these questions.

1. Do you have more or less than you retired with. All but one said more.
2. Are you able to do the majority of things you want to with your current finances? One said no, a few said they have to make some choices but most said yes.
3. Do you wish you had worked longer to save more money? Only one yes. The guy that said yes is a great guy but he's a financial moron. I took him to the airport this morning for his trip to his 31 year old son's wedding. He's paying for the wedding which no one can believe.

This week we've played golf 3 times, gone to an MLB game and have 2 more tee times for the week. Last week some of us did a mountain trip to enjoy some 70 degree weather.

Only the moron said he would trade time for more money. At least to these people time is the most important commodity we have.


Wow, that's getting it from the horses mouth. Only 1 has more than $1 million? Every calculator tells me I will need $2.5 million to be able to retire in 8 years.
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water turkey said:

jja79 said:

i live in a retirement community with 2,800 homes so there are a lot of us. I would describe it as very much middle class. Of the group of people in my good friend group (20 or so guys that play golf, go to baseball and hockey, lake, mountains, etc) took an unscientific poll the last few days. I think 1 or maybe 2 have $1MM or more. Some like me retired within the last 18 months but some have been retired 5, 10 and one 14 years. I asked a these questions.

1. Do you have more or less than you retired with. All but one said more.
2. Are you able to do the majority of things you want to with your current finances? One said no, a few said they have to make some choices but most said yes.
3. Do you wish you had worked longer to save more money? Only one yes. The guy that said yes is a great guy but he's a financial moron. I took him to the airport this morning for his trip to his 31 year old son's wedding. He's paying for the wedding which no one can believe.

This week we've played golf 3 times, gone to an MLB game and have 2 more tee times for the week. Last week some of us did a mountain trip to enjoy some 70 degree weather.

Only the moron said he would trade time for more money. At least to these people time is the most important commodity we have.


Wow, that's getting it from the horses mouth. Only 1 has more than $1 million? Every calculator tells me I will need $2.5 million to be able to retire in 8 years.

And you may, to protect yourself from sequence of return risk. I imagine people that retired the last 5-10 years are loving life as they've retired through this bull market and their accounts have continued to grow.
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That's certainly beneficial to those of us retired, just as the bull market is beneficial to those of you building towards retirement. As I said I'm not being critical of anyone that's aiming higher. Just giving a real life example of people enjoying life on a much less grand scale. As I said I've learned to value time and control of 100% of my time from these people.
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What are the ages of these folks with <$1M? That matters.

That is a catastrophically low number and not nearly enough depending on your age.
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You guys are making it really hard to go to work tomorrow.
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Per the Federal Reserve data the median savings for retirees 65-74 is $200K. Edward Jones says the average in this age range is $609,000.

The youngest guy in our group is 65 and the oldest 77. I'm 68.

You may think it's catastrophicly low but I'm watching it play out with no problems for real people. There's Texags rich and real life. As I said this isn't a criticism of anyone working on a bigger pile but I'm out here seeing people who are the happiest I've ever been around.

I gave up my All American Club tickets, Houston Oaks and Traditions memberships so my carrying costs went way down. We pay $2K/year and play 200 or so rounds so do the math. We go to midweek MLB day games, so we pay hardly anything. I'm 2.5 years into living here, 14 months retired and I've found being in more control of spending is the key.
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My question is always how much do people actually spend in retirement? Hard to imagine going from what we are earning/spending now with kids to living off of ~$100-150k, but it sounds like that is more than enough for most. Is that accurate?
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I'm also saving with a goal number in mind that assumes social security will be $0.
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Read my edit to what I just posted.

These guys find every bargain known to man. A bunch of old guys pulling up to Arby's for $1 root beer floats is more fun than you might think!!
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Probably not a bad idea. I get $42K social security (single) and haven't taken any withdrawals yet. My goal is to live for 2 years on SS and what's left from my last year of earnings and so far so good..
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I don't question the happiness right now in the moment. I question the math holding out.

Having $1M at 68 even with just $50k spend per year has somewhere around a 60% success rate of lasting. Your group is rolling the dice.

I'm being judgy but your housing costs must be very low and then these dudes must not be spending any money outside of these trips.

My parents have about $1M but they are 82 and no longer do much of anything. They should be fine. But 68 with only $1M? Woof.
 
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