There are a few things to talk about in this thread.
1. The whole Chris Collins' parents flew on the plane and subsidized some of the costs is false. That was made clear by the person who posted it, but wanted to make sure everyone on here had a chance to understand that that simply isn't the case. People don't always read the edits to posts, so I wanted to get that out there.
2. People in athletic departments read fan websites from every school. Not all, but some. They are fans, just like you and me. However, as in this case, when a person is directly mentioned in a thread, especially one like this that gains some steam, usually that person is contacted by a friend, or acquaintance and notified.
3. The above mention of being made aware goes in this case, as a couple of people recently told Darby about this thread and he made mention of it to me. He said he regrets the situation and shouldn't have said anything. What he was referring to was not the people saying Chris had a bad game or shouldn't be playing or talking about his skill level (people are going to judge that no matter who you are), but he was upset that some were taking it too far and taking personal shots at Chris.
He saw a guy who was put in really bad situations and giving it his all for his team and anonymous people felt they could take direct, personal shots at a kid from behind a computer screen. Again, if he had the chance, he most likely would have never had that interaction. At the time, he was protecting one of his guys.
He went about it in the wrong manner, but there are a couple of people on this thread that have gone about their responses in the wrong manner (you know who you are... or maybe the problem is that you really don't know who you are) as well by making unnecessary comments about the person on the previous basketball staff who put more heart and soul into the kids, on and off the court, than any other staff member.
As a member of the coaching staff, you cannot have those types of interactions, but that doesn't dismiss the fact that the same people who are complaining about Darby's handling of the situation, are the same people who are trying to belittle him through words on a message board.
Something about glass houses...