Tramp96 said:

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I hate to side with TA-OP, but he's right on this one. As long as you are married to her, you don't get to have an excuse to cheat on her. You may THINK YOU have an excuse, but that doesn't mean you are right to do it.

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FTFY

TA-OP said:

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Yes. Never. There's no room for grey area here.

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We finally agree on something.

VP at Pierce and Pierce said:

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I can't imagine the anxiety those two have. He's probably scrambling to rent a hotel and get his bags packed while trying to find a lawyer.

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Don't think he even got to sleep on the couch at home last night

🚨#BREAKING: Astronomer CEO Andy Byron and Chief People Officer Kristin Cabot have been placed on immediate administrative leave pic.twitter.com/1u4rPH9iRw

— R A W S A L E R T S (@rawsalerts) July 18, 2025

Average Joe said:

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infinity ag said:

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Teslag said:

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Aston04 said:

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Wow, definitely MUCH hotter than the HR lady he was cuddling on. That's crazy.

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But does she do all the things? A lot of wives push a man to cheat because she gives up on herself and no longer does what needs to be done to keep a man faithful.

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This is true. Esp after she pops out babies, the husband becomes an afterthought. Then the kids grow up and she doesn't go back to being a "girlfriend" again. So the boys being boys, they look elsewhere for things their wives won't provide.

At some level, if this is the case, I don't blame the CEO. Life sucks sometimes. He probably loves his kids a lot and does not want them to have a broken home.

At some point in life, just "good looks" in a woman isn't enough to keep him. He wants to feel wanted, desired, given the attention not just for what he can provide ($$$). Maybe the HR chick did it for him, I don't know.

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Then get a divorce and THEN go find another woman.

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Not as simple as that. He has kids, and probably loves them. Pulled in both direction

OMG look at me, siding with a CEO on one part of the issue!

Dang. So many lives and families impacted by their actions.
Sucks for their kids.
And the HR lady ain't gonna find another job. There's being exposed for having an affair, and then there's this.
At least Jesus is forgiving. The internet is not.

deddog said:

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TA-OP said:

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Yes. Never. There's no room for grey area here.

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We finally agree on something.

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Told everyone I'm not a Godless radical lib.

infinity ag said:

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Average Joe said:

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infinity ag said:

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Teslag said:

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Aston04 said:

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Wow, definitely MUCH hotter than the HR lady he was cuddling on. That's crazy.

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But does she do all the things? A lot of wives push a man to cheat because she gives up on herself and no longer does what needs to be done to keep a man faithful.

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This is true. Esp after she pops out babies, the husband becomes an afterthought. Then the kids grow up and she doesn't go back to being a "girlfriend" again. So the boys being boys, they look elsewhere for things their wives won't provide.

At some level, if this is the case, I don't blame the CEO. Life sucks sometimes. He probably loves his kids a lot and does not want them to have a broken home.

At some point in life, just "good looks" in a woman isn't enough to keep him. He wants to feel wanted, desired, given the attention not just for what he can provide ($$$). Maybe the HR chick did it for him, I don't know.

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Then get a divorce and THEN go find another woman.

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Not as simple as that. He has kids, and probably loves them. Pulled in both direction

OMG look at me, siding with a CEO on one part of the issue!

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If you love your kids, be faithful to your wife.
He wasn't pulled in both directions. He chased ***** over his wife and kids.

Tramp96 said:

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I hate to side with TA-OP, but he's right on this one. As long as you are married to her, you don't get to have an excuse to cheat on her. You may have an excuse, but that doesn't mean you are right to do it.

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Lots of virtue signaling in this thread.

No one is saying he is not at fault. Cheating is wrong.

However, a man kept happy by his wife does not cheat. We don't know what happens in their bedroom but if she played games with him and refused sex and all that, then she is at fault too.

I always love to watch the simps stand up, hide behind God, change goalposts, create and beat up strawmen while they get on with simping.

TA-OP said:

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deddog said:

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TA-OP said:

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Yes. Never. There's no room for grey area here.

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We finally agree on something.

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Told everyone I'm not a Godless radical lib.

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I'm know I had you in that convenient bucket too.
You're still a radical lib though.

deddog said:

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TA-OP said:

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deddog said:

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TA-OP said:

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Yes. Never. There's no room for grey area here.

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We finally agree on something.

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Told everyone I'm not a Godless radical lib.

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I'm know I had you in that convenient bucket too.
You're still a radical lib though.

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/fistbump

deddog said:

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infinity ag said:

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Average Joe said:

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infinity ag said:

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Teslag said:

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Aston04 said:

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Wow, definitely MUCH hotter than the HR lady he was cuddling on. That's crazy.

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But does she do all the things? A lot of wives push a man to cheat because she gives up on herself and no longer does what needs to be done to keep a man faithful.

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This is true. Esp after she pops out babies, the husband becomes an afterthought. Then the kids grow up and she doesn't go back to being a "girlfriend" again. So the boys being boys, they look elsewhere for things their wives won't provide.

At some level, if this is the case, I don't blame the CEO. Life sucks sometimes. He probably loves his kids a lot and does not want them to have a broken home.

At some point in life, just "good looks" in a woman isn't enough to keep him. He wants to feel wanted, desired, given the attention not just for what he can provide ($$$). Maybe the HR chick did it for him, I don't know.

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Then get a divorce and THEN go find another woman.

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Not as simple as that. He has kids, and probably loves them. Pulled in both direction

OMG look at me, siding with a CEO on one part of the issue!

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If you love your kids, be faithful to your wife.
He wasn't pulled in both directions. He chased ***** over his wife and kids.

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How do you know? Are you his son? Or his uncle?

If his wife was a cold beach at home and didn't care about his needs and abused him, then she is at fault too for taking him for granted.

I am reasonably sure he and his wife were in a dead marriage but he loved his kids and would leave once they grew up. He jumped the gun though.

infinity ag said:

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Tramp96 said:

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I hate to side with TA-OP, but he's right on this one. As long as you are married to her, you don't get to have an excuse to cheat on her. You may have an excuse, but that doesn't mean you are right to do it.

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Lots of virtue signaling in this thread.

No one is saying he is not at fault. Cheating is wrong.

However, a man kept happy by his wife does not cheat. We don't know what happens in their bedroom but if she played games with him and refused sex and all that, then she is at fault too.

I always love to watch the simps stand up, hide behind God, change goalposts, create and beat up strawmen while they get on with simping.

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I don't think you understand what virtue signaling is.

infinity ag said:

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Aston04 said:

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Wow, definitely MUCH hotter than the HR lady he was cuddling on. That's crazy.

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The woman in the picture is not his wife. She is a model from a meme. This is his wife, the woman on the left.

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why are you lying. thats not his wife and kids. these are. pic.twitter.com/6DoBucv3V5

— Info Chandler (@rightcntrl) July 18, 2025

No. My kids understand the word. Why is it so hard for you?

All the folks yammering about God in a discussion are fakes and hypocrites. That is what people do, hide behind God. Politicians do this a lot. Steal and cheat and then talk about how they found God.

TA-OP said:

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No. My kids understand the word. Why is it so hard for you?

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which word?

infinity ag said:

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deddog said:

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infinity ag said:

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Average Joe said:

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infinity ag said:

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Teslag said:

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Aston04 said:

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Wow, definitely MUCH hotter than the HR lady he was cuddling on. That's crazy.

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But does she do all the things? A lot of wives push a man to cheat because she gives up on herself and no longer does what needs to be done to keep a man faithful.

---

This is true. Esp after she pops out babies, the husband becomes an afterthought. Then the kids grow up and she doesn't go back to being a "girlfriend" again. So the boys being boys, they look elsewhere for things their wives won't provide.

At some level, if this is the case, I don't blame the CEO. Life sucks sometimes. He probably loves his kids a lot and does not want them to have a broken home.

At some point in life, just "good looks" in a woman isn't enough to keep him. He wants to feel wanted, desired, given the attention not just for what he can provide ($$$). Maybe the HR chick did it for him, I don't know.

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Then get a divorce and THEN go find another woman.

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Not as simple as that. He has kids, and probably loves them. Pulled in both direction

OMG look at me, siding with a CEO on one part of the issue!

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If you love your kids, be faithful to your wife.
He wasn't pulled in both directions. He chased ***** over his wife and kids.

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How do you know? Are you his son? Or his uncle?

If his wife was a cold beach at home and didn't care about his needs and abused him, then she is at fault too for taking him for granted.

I am reasonably sure he and his wife were in a dead marriage but he loved his kids and would leave once they grew up. He jumped the gun though.

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How do you know? Are you his son? Or his uncle?

infinity ag said:

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Average Joe said:

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infinity ag said:

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Teslag said:

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Aston04 said:

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Wow, definitely MUCH hotter than the HR lady he was cuddling on. That's crazy.

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But does she do all the things? A lot of wives push a man to cheat because she gives up on herself and no longer does what needs to be done to keep a man faithful.

---

This is true. Esp after she pops out babies, the husband becomes an afterthought. Then the kids grow up and she doesn't go back to being a "girlfriend" again. So the boys being boys, they look elsewhere for things their wives won't provide.

At some level, if this is the case, I don't blame the CEO. Life sucks sometimes. He probably loves his kids a lot and does not want them to have a broken home.

At some point in life, just "good looks" in a woman isn't enough to keep him. He wants to feel wanted, desired, given the attention not just for what he can provide ($$$). Maybe the HR chick did it for him, I don't know.

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Then get a divorce and THEN go find another woman.

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Not as simple as that. He has kids, and probably loves them. Pulled in both direction

OMG look at me, siding with a CEO on one part of the issue!

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Because cheating on your wife is a great example for you kids, and will result in nothing but happy memories?

**** husband, **** father.

infinity ag said:

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TA-OP said:

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No. My kids understand the word. Why is it so hard for you?

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which word?

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NO

infinity ag said:

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All the folks yammering about God in a discussion are fakes and hypocrites. That is what people do, hide behind God. Politicians do this a lot. Steal and cheat and then talk about how they found God.

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You need better friends.
Seriously.

infinity ag said:

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Tramp96 said:

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I hate to side with TA-OP, but he's right on this one. As long as you are married to her, you don't get to have an excuse to cheat on her. You may have an excuse, but that doesn't mean you are right to do it.

---

Lots of virtue signaling in this thread.

No one is saying he is not at fault. Cheating is wrong.

However, a man kept happy by his wife does not cheat. We don't know what happens in their bedroom but if she played games with him and refused sex and all that, then she is at fault too.

I always love to watch the simps stand up, hide behind God, change goalposts, create and beat up strawmen while they get on with simping.

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You interpreted it all wrong.

If I cheated on my wife, at the end of the day, that's on me. Period. I may want to blame her for a whole host of reasons, but those are just excuses for me to do what I want.

Plenty of men are tempted to cheat, or have cheated, even when their wife has done nothing wrong. I've been tempted. I think every man has. Sometimes we just suck and do bad things or are tempted to do bad things.

That's not hiding behind God. That's not changing goalposts. That's admitting straight up that at the end of the day, I have to own my decision-making, and not make excuses for it.

deddog said:

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infinity ag said:

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deddog said:

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infinity ag said:

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Average Joe said:

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infinity ag said:

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Teslag said:

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Aston04 said:

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Wow, definitely MUCH hotter than the HR lady he was cuddling on. That's crazy.

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But does she do all the things? A lot of wives push a man to cheat because she gives up on herself and no longer does what needs to be done to keep a man faithful.

---

This is true. Esp after she pops out babies, the husband becomes an afterthought. Then the kids grow up and she doesn't go back to being a "girlfriend" again. So the boys being boys, they look elsewhere for things their wives won't provide.

At some level, if this is the case, I don't blame the CEO. Life sucks sometimes. He probably loves his kids a lot and does not want them to have a broken home.

At some point in life, just "good looks" in a woman isn't enough to keep him. He wants to feel wanted, desired, given the attention not just for what he can provide ($$$). Maybe the HR chick did it for him, I don't know.

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Then get a divorce and THEN go find another woman.

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Not as simple as that. He has kids, and probably loves them. Pulled in both direction

OMG look at me, siding with a CEO on one part of the issue!

---

If you love your kids, be faithful to your wife.
He wasn't pulled in both directions. He chased ***** over his wife and kids.

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How do you know? Are you his son? Or his uncle?

If his wife was a cold beach at home and didn't care about his needs and abused him, then she is at fault too for taking him for granted.

I am reasonably sure he and his wife were in a dead marriage but he loved his kids and would leave once they grew up. He jumped the gun though.

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How do you know? Are you his son? Or his uncle?

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Say something original please.

That is why I said "reasonably sure". It is my opinion based on trends I have observed. You are the one talking about how he "saw ***** and ran". Maybe she gave him love that his wife didn't and the poor CEO wanted to be happy for once.

deddog said:

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infinity ag said:

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All the folks yammering about God in a discussion are fakes and hypocrites. That is what people do, hide behind God. Politicians do this a lot. Steal and cheat and then talk about how they found God.

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You need better friends.
Seriously.

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As they say, "you don't know me".

TA-OP said:

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infinity ag said:

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TA-OP said:

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No. My kids understand the word. Why is it so hard for you?

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which word?

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NO

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Bro, I don't even know what you are talking about. We are talking about the CEO and his sexual romps. And you started giving a discourse about God.

Totally confused.

infinity ag said:

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Tramp96 said:

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I hate to side with TA-OP, but he's right on this one. As long as you are married to her, you don't get to have an excuse to cheat on her. You may have an excuse, but that doesn't mean you are right to do it.

---

Lots of virtue signaling in this thread.

No one is saying he is not at fault. Cheating is wrong.

However, a man kept happy by his wife does not cheat. We don't know what happens in their bedroom but if she played games with him and refused sex and all that, then she is at fault too.

I always love to watch the simps stand up, hide behind God, change goalposts, create and beat up strawmen while they get on with simping.

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Simping? It's called being a good husband. I didn't make a vow to her that said "in sickness and in health, unless you don't give it up enough for me."

Again, get a divorce, then screw around all you want.

Tramp96 said:

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infinity ag said:

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Tramp96 said:

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I hate to side with TA-OP, but he's right on this one. As long as you are married to her, you don't get to have an excuse to cheat on her. You may have an excuse, but that doesn't mean you are right to do it.

---

Lots of virtue signaling in this thread.

No one is saying he is not at fault. Cheating is wrong.

However, a man kept happy by his wife does not cheat. We don't know what happens in their bedroom but if she played games with him and refused sex and all that, then she is at fault too.

I always love to watch the simps stand up, hide behind God, change goalposts, create and beat up strawmen while they get on with simping.

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You interpreted it all wrong.

If I cheated on my wife, at the end of the day, that's on me. Period. I may want to blame her for a whole host of reasons, but those are just excuses for me to do what I want.

Plenty of men are tempted to cheat, or have cheated, even when their wife has done nothing wrong. I've been tempted. I think every man has. Sometimes we just suck and do bad things or are tempted to do bad things.

That's not hiding behind God. That's not changing goalposts. That's admitting straight up that at the end of the day, I have to own my decision-making, and not make excuses for it.

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Yes, if you cheat, it is on you. The CEO is at fault here. I don't think anyone said he is guiltless.

What I am saying is that IF the wife was frigid and did not care about his needs, then she is at fault too. Whether that is the case or not, we don't know - I sure don't.

infinity ag said:

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deddog said:

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infinity ag said:

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All the folks yammering about God in a discussion are fakes and hypocrites. That is what people do, hide behind God. Politicians do this a lot. Steal and cheat and then talk about how they found God.

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You need better friends.
Seriously.

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As they say, "you don't know me".

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There is a lot you can learn about a person by the way they post.
If you think people "yammering about God in a discussion are fakes and hypocrites," you need better friends and a better community. I was blessed enough to find it.

Average Joe said:

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infinity ag said:

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Tramp96 said:

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I hate to side with TA-OP, but he's right on this one. As long as you are married to her, you don't get to have an excuse to cheat on her. You may have an excuse, but that doesn't mean you are right to do it.

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Lots of virtue signaling in this thread.

No one is saying he is not at fault. Cheating is wrong.

However, a man kept happy by his wife does not cheat. We don't know what happens in their bedroom but if she played games with him and refused sex and all that, then she is at fault too.

I always love to watch the simps stand up, hide behind God, change goalposts, create and beat up strawmen while they get on with simping.

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Simping? It's called being a good husband. I didn't make a vow to her that said "in sickness and in health, unless you don't give it up enough for me."

Again, get a divorce, then screw around all you want.

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Good has to be on both sides. Both the wife and husband have to be good to each other.

It is pretty clear that he is in the wrong. Whether she is wrong too, is unclear.

infinity ag said:

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Tramp96 said:

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infinity ag said:

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Tramp96 said:

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I hate to side with TA-OP, but he's right on this one. As long as you are married to her, you don't get to have an excuse to cheat on her. You may have an excuse, but that doesn't mean you are right to do it.

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Lots of virtue signaling in this thread.

No one is saying he is not at fault. Cheating is wrong.

However, a man kept happy by his wife does not cheat. We don't know what happens in their bedroom but if she played games with him and refused sex and all that, then she is at fault too.

I always love to watch the simps stand up, hide behind God, change goalposts, create and beat up strawmen while they get on with simping.

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You interpreted it all wrong.

If I cheated on my wife, at the end of the day, that's on me. Period. I may want to blame her for a whole host of reasons, but those are just excuses for me to do what I want.

Plenty of men are tempted to cheat, or have cheated, even when their wife has done nothing wrong. I've been tempted. I think every man has. Sometimes we just suck and do bad things or are tempted to do bad things.

That's not hiding behind God. That's not changing goalposts. That's admitting straight up that at the end of the day, I have to own my decision-making, and not make excuses for it.

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Yes, if you cheat, it is on you. The CEO is at fault here. I don't think anyone said he is guiltless.

What I am saying is that IF the wife was frigid and did not care about his needs, then she is at fault too. Whether that is the case or not, we don't know - I sure don't.

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Her not putting out is a reason for DIVORCE. NOT cheating.

When you cheated on your spouse, how did it go when they found out?

infinity ag said:

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All the folks yammering about God in a discussion are fakes and hypocrites. That is what people do, hide behind God. Politicians do this a lot. Steal and cheat and then talk about how they found God.

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i know you don't care, but I'm losing more and more respect for you and your posts by the second. I've never even once considered cheating on my wife, even emotionally cheating. We've been through some very hard times like almost losing our first born as an infant at someone else's hands and then being placed under CPS investigation. There is no "dry spell" that makes it okay to cheat. As I said earlier, is Ms. infinity ag cheats on you, is it your fault? Are you the one committing a sin that's on the same level as murder?

I'm with you. Shocked to see people defending this at all and even going as far as making a narrative that his wife wasn't fulfilling marital duties when they have absolutely zero information about that.

More than likely a lot of self-justification from the cheaters on this board that are outing themselves as long as we all get to speculate and make **** up. Bet I'm closer to right than they are though

deddog said:

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infinity ag said:

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deddog said:

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infinity ag said:

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All the folks yammering about God in a discussion are fakes and hypocrites. That is what people do, hide behind God. Politicians do this a lot. Steal and cheat and then talk about how they found God.

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You need better friends.
Seriously.

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As they say, "you don't know me".

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There is a lot you can learn about a person by the way they post.
If you think people "yammering about God in a discussion are fakes and hypocrites," you need better friends and a better community. I was blessed enough to find it.

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I think you are being very naive about the world.

We are discussing about a marital and business situation. God has no place here though you might try to insert it in all kinds of places.

I am happy with my friends and community, thank you. Not looking for any advice.

TA-OP said:

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infinity ag said:

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All the folks yammering about God in a discussion are fakes and hypocrites. That is what people do, hide behind God. Politicians do this a lot. Steal and cheat and then talk about how they found God.

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i know you don't care, but I'm losing more and more respect for you and your posts by the second. I've never even once considered cheating on my wife, even emotionally cheating. We've been through some very hard times like almost losing our first born as an infant at someone else's hands and then being placed under CPS investigation. There is no "dry spell" that makes it okay to cheat. As I said earlier, is Ms. infinity ag cheats on you, is it your fault? Are you the one committing a sin that's on the same level as murder?

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How did "respect" come in here? We are just posters on an anonymous forum. Most of us are Ags and some may not be. Let's be objective here please.

I never said it was okay to cheat. You are claiming that I did.

Looks like I touched a nerve here with a personal situation and it is not my intent to hurt you in any way. So sorry if I did.

infinity ag said:

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deddog said:

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infinity ag said:

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deddog said:

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infinity ag said:

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All the folks yammering about God in a discussion are fakes and hypocrites. That is what people do, hide behind God. Politicians do this a lot. Steal and cheat and then talk about how they found God.

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You need better friends.
Seriously.

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As they say, "you don't know me".

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There is a lot you can learn about a person by the way they post.
If you think people "yammering about God in a discussion are fakes and hypocrites," you need better friends and a better community. I was blessed enough to find it.

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I think you are being very naive about the world.

We are discussing about a marital and business situation. God has no place here though you might try to insert it in all kinds of places.

I am happy with my friends and community, thank you. Not looking for any advice.

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okay. To be clear, you're saying that God has no place in marriage? Learn something new everyday.