annie88 said:
Wildmen06 said:
Here, ill never forget her Frugal Mom posts...
Those were truly funny. And the posts that she would show from some of those women on the site she was on were nuts.
As I said, she and I really didn't get along well on here for the most part, it had mellowed some over the years, A mutual respect at least on my part, but she gave as good as she got and she stood her ground on her issues, even though we rarely agreed.
You've got to respect that.
Again, Here.
Join the club. I irritated her enough in the early years I was here, that even Benny knew my username but called me "that lady lawyer?" when she was complaining to him about me. But we got past that. (Maybe sharing my homemade and home canned squash relish recipe with her, kind of broke the ice. That squash relish was fabulous.)
When I learned she was ill and which ailments she had, I shared my late sister's story who had much the same ailments and how my sister just didn't give up and fought through them for decades before finally succumbing. Not something I had really shared in that depth here or anywhere before then. I understand much of what her daily life was like in the hospital, at home briefly with home nursing, being in an assisted living facility for as long as she had. Easy to get depressed and discouraged. So I hoped sharing the story of my later sister's indomitable spirit and fight would help in some small way.
She is at rest now. No more hourly challenges to grit her teeth and work through. No more loud noises from the other rooms or corridors. The indignity of having nurses take the most personal of care of her. End of life care can be brutal, not intentionally, just the way it is, especially for someone as sentient as Tanya.
I will miss her greatly.